Whats the conversation and agreement had before embarking on the journey of bringing children into the world? Feel like there should be clear planning for this by the couple so everyone understands the role they have to play once the newborns come home. Ppl also need to very realistically measure the maturity of their partner before jumping on the baby wagon cos if u have children with and adult-child type of person – theyre just not gonna handle the child load and will instead bcom a child themselves. Sighh. If he doesnt change his behaviour then leave him.
Bro I understand the man but going out with your friends when you have twins is wrong yes , he has a 9 to 5 , and now he have to work twice as hard because he got kids , that's understandable, but if he has the free time to go out with his friends he should look after and atleast help out her ,
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Whats the conversation and agreement had before embarking on the journey of bringing children into the world? Feel like there should be clear planning for this by the couple so everyone understands the role they have to play once the newborns come home.
Ppl also need to very realistically measure the maturity of their partner before jumping on the baby wagon cos if u have children with and adult-child type of person – theyre just not gonna handle the child load and will instead bcom a child themselves. Sighh.
If he doesnt change his behaviour then leave him.
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Bro I understand the man but going out with your friends when you have twins is wrong yes , he has a 9 to 5 , and now he have to work twice as hard because he got kids , that's understandable, but if he has the free time to go out with his friends he should look after and atleast help out her ,